I could really use your prayers right now. I'm hanging on by a thread.
Tuesday, April 5, 2011
Things Fell Apart
Brandon and I are going to marriage counseling next week. I made an appointment for Monday and he agreed to go with him. I'm not ready to talk about the details but our marriage is in serious jeopardy and after hearing this news I am utterly devastated. I have never felt so alone and so lost in all my life.
I could really use your prayers right now. I'm hanging on by a thread.
I could really use your prayers right now. I'm hanging on by a thread.
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I'm so sorry. I hope that the counseling allows you to work through whatever it is that has brought the world crashing down around your ears. ((HUGS))
ReplyDeleteKeeping you both in my prayers..
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear you're going through this. As if IF isn't enough. :( Hang in there, prayers are going up. (((HUGS)))
ReplyDeleteSo sorry it is feeling like things are falling apart. I hope things look up soon! Hugs!
ReplyDeleteOh Christa, I'm so sorry!! I hope things work out for you soon. HUGS and more hugs to you. Praying, too.
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Jane
I'm so sorry, I will definitely be praying for you! ((Hugs))
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry Christa... you are in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeletetake a deep breathe!!! A couple more!! I am so sorry..:( Things seem very heated. I really hope your counseling together helps you two communicate to each other and it helps ease the intensity. Please keep us posted...I am thinking good thoughts for the two of you
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Christa, I am so terribly sorry to hear this news. I will definitely be keeping you and Brandon in my prayers. I hate that you are feeling so alone, but I hope you know you have MANY friends across the country that are praying for you and wishing for the best for you.
ReplyDeleteChrista, I am so sorry that you are going through this. IF is so very hard on a marriage. I think the fact that he is going with you to counseling is a good sign that he values your marriage and is willing to work on the issues that you two are facing. I will be thinking of you both as you work through this. (((HUGS)))
ReplyDeleteAll of this really puts marriages to the test. Im so sorry things are hard at the moment. I hope the counselling really helps and gives you both some direction. all my love
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry Christa. Infertility is notoriously hard on marriages, but I agree with some others on here that the fact that you are both willing to talk and work on things is already an important step. Wishing you strength as you go through all this.
ReplyDeleteThinking of you and sending up prayers... if you need to talk (we had a crises several months ago, I moved out of the bedroom for a while), you know my email, and I can give you my cell too. Much love.
ReplyDeleteOh, honey. I am sending you many positive thoughts and hugs and praying you get through this together.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry, darling. I'll be thinking about you and praying for the best.
ReplyDeleteSweetie, my God, what happened, so so unexpected, of course you are in my prayers, you are strong and a beautiful couple, you'll get through this.
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Sending good thoughts & prayers your way. I hope the counseling helps you both navigate this difficult time.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear your news. Thinking of you.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry that you're in a rough place. But, I am happy that you two are talking about it. That's a really promising step. I'm thinking of you. Hugs
ReplyDeleteOh no, Christa! Thoughts, prayers, and all good things are being sent your way. Hang in there.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear this. I can only imagine how you must be hurting right now. I'll be praying for peace and comfort for you.
ReplyDeletePraying for you! I know that if puts an incredible strain on marrigaes. But just know that if you can survive whatever is happening rightnow....your marriage will only be stronger, deepr, and more unbreakable.
ReplyDeleteOh Honey...I am so sorry to hear this. Counseling sounds like a step in the right direction. Hang in there and we are all here for you! ((HUGS))
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear this. Praying for you that counseling helps you two to work through everything.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear this. I know the place that you are at...no, not the details, but we've come very close to ending our marriage while on this tumultuous journey. Counselling helped and I hope you both can come back together and reignite the love and passion you felt when you first met.
ReplyDeleteLoads of love & strength to you & your hubs!
ReplyDeleteI am sending out serious prayers for you. Stay strong, or not...whatever lets you get through these times. HUGS
ReplyDeleteHey hun...C and I have been here in the past when dealing with IF (on top of other stressors). Decisions in marriage are tough, but then add ones about kids, how you are going to bring them into your life, they get harder. The best I have heard it thus far is that women need kids, men want them. That in itself makes one another move at different paces and accept things differently.
ReplyDeleteAfter our fresh IVF failure in the fall we went to see a fertility councilor and despite being a skeptic in thinking it wasn't going to help, it has. It has opened both of our eyes to see why each of us are thinking/feeling a certain way and allowing us to accept it more easily.
I think it is a great sign that you took the step and he agreed to go.
I am not sure what else is happening in your home, but know if you need support, an ear or a shoulder I am happy to help!
Sending lots of strength and hugs.
Sending lots of love and good thoughts. Hoping counseling brings clarity. *hugs*
ReplyDeletePraying for you Christa. (((Hugs)))
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